My Bloglog

Relay for Life in SL


Today I explored the amazing builds that were created for the Relay for Life event in SL. They are going away soon so catch them if you haven’t already.

You can still make a donation to the Cancer Society of America and have it be part of this year’s relay for life at http://www.todayisave.com/alife

Me Today July 28th

A question of timing and connections.

Me Today July 26

Don’t let your fears hold you back from what you want to do.

Me Today – Faces Edition

Some days you gotta just be a little silly. This was one of them.

8 Random Things About My Desk

It was late…I was casting about for ideas – so you have 8 Random Things (that were) About My Desk.

8 Random Things About Me

I have been tagged by Susan Reynolds to tell ya’ll 8 random things about me. So, with a bit of delay, here are 8 random things about me.

1. My Erdös number is 3. It helps when you work with your husband and his Erdös number is 2. :-)

2. I have met and talked with Nadia Boulanger. She was an amazing lady, and I will always remember her telling the group that was chatting with her to remember “I will not be deflected from the pursuit of my goals.” She spoke of the challenges she had faced, and how important it is to not let someone else’s perception of limitation stand in the way of achieving your goals. I was probably 7 or 8 when I saw her.

3. I am an accidental ham. (And kosher too.) My husband decided to get his ham radio license, starting with the technician class license. I went along with him when he took his test. The folks there cajoled me into to taking the novice test. I hadn’t preprepared but figured why not? I passed the novice written test. They gave me 15 minutes to review the study book my husband had brought in the car, and I took the technician test, but missed by two points. I came back next test round and passed the 5wpm morse code test and the technician test and got my “ticket”. I later tested up to getting an advanced class license.

4. My Uncle works at Skywalker Ranch as a sound engineer and has worked as the road manager for Eddie Money and Santana (at different times).

5. I ride a motorcycle, a Honda Hawk with a custom paint job. The paint job looks stock (gunmetal gray) but if you looked carefully at the bike, instead of saying Honda in the requisite logo sites it has my first name in the same font. I also got my husband into motorcycling.

6. I graduated from the University of Liverpool, but I have spent less than 8 hours in Liverpool England. I attended through an online course coordinated with Laureate Education. I went to Liverpool for my graduation which had considerable Pomp and Circumstance.

7. I play clarinet. I was convinced to learn clarinet by a friend who told me our marching band needed “More marching bass clarinets.” At least she didn’t tell me we needed more marching harps. I started with bass clarinet but moved to the B-flat clarinet when they started up the orchestra for the King & I. I have played clarinet in the Tournament of Roses marching band and in the Youth Orchestra at Cal State LA (this was about 20 (gasp) years ago).

8. I grew up on a private girl’s school campus (Foxcroft School for girls) as a faculty kid. I learned gardening, Appalachian dulcimer, and horseback riding there, even though I never attended the school. (I was too young for most of my time there and chose to go to public school for the one year I could have attended.)

Now to pass the baton: I am inviting Jim Long, Jon Swanson, Bryan Villarin, Gruven Reuven, Kim M. Bayne, Clarence (DYKC), and Eric Rice to share 8 random things about themselves. I totally understand if this isn’t something you do on your blog, but I wanted to know more about you so I thought I’d let you know by passing along the theme.

New BRIEF – 14seconds to Me Today

Just a fun short video of me from Friday.

Attitude & and iPhone Giveaway at Viddler


This video has two parts the first part is about the excitement of the drawing for the first iPhone that viddler gave away. They have one left and you can enter by doing MeToday videos yourself.

The second part is about tackling a problem, and how talking with a good friend helps. I realized that I was looking at problem with “past eyes”. As we grow and change the way people react to us changes. Also, people and situations change.

To assume that something won’t work “because it never worked before” is using “past eyes”. Why didn’t it work before? Are those factors still the same? Can you change the ground rules? It may not have worked in the past, but is there benefit from trying it again now? It might just be worth giving it a try.

Why I do MeToday and Why You Should Too

This is about why I am doing a daily MeToday video over on Viddler and why you should consider doing it too. Sure, recording a MeToday may not be for everyone but if you aren’t doing it because you don’t think you have something interesting to offer, think again. We want to hear about your day, and you may get some benefits from it too.

Promote Yourself

Eric Rice was talking about the skills rating feature of 8apps on Twitter, and there was a bit of discussion of whether people like/don’t like such a feature. Given the way the tool is implemented, the feature can be a great tool, because it lets you know how other people perceive your skills.

You know what you are good at and what you like to do, but if others aren’t seeing it they aren’t going to think of you when they need that skill. Tools like these help let you know how others are seeing you. By knowing how others rate you, you can know if you need to work on how your being perceived.

Perception, in part, comes down to promotion, or more specifically self-promotion.

I don’t know about you, but for me for years self-promotion seemed selfish and egotistical. My attitude was “I did it, that should be enough for me to get recognized.” (Ok…now what attitude was egotistical.)

The truth is, everyone is busy living their lives and has their own priorities. They may notice that the job was done but not bother to see who it was that did it. Alternatively, maybe your work was fundamental to the success but not the flashy front-line work that everyone notices. In our fast paced information filled lives there is only so much we can pay attention to.

This means that we need to promote ourselves if we want to be recognized for what we do. AND…and this is the part that took me a while to get… it isn’t selfish. If you don’t promote yourself people won’t know what you can offer and you will be denying them the use of your skills.

Now how to promote yourself, well Chris Brogan has an excellent post on this. As he points out: make it about your audience. This is true whether it is your new product/website/gadget or if it is about your skills at your everyday job.

There is a time and place for anonymous action. Just make sure your anonymous actions are chosen and not caused by an oversight.